Following our suggestions won't completely protect your child but it will help reduce the risk of a missing child and aid in a safe recovery. Remember, all children are vulnerable.
Teach your children according to their age:
- Their name, age, telephone number, area code, address, city and province.
- To carry identification.
- How to phone long distance by dialling direct or with operator assistance.
- How to reach you in an emergency. How to reach police, fire, ambulance, doctor, relative, and a neighbour.
- To carry enough money to make a phone call.
- To tell where they are at all times.
- Not to answer the door if they are alone.
- Never to invite strangers into their home.
- Not to enter anyone's home without permission.
- Not to accept gifts from strangers.
- Never to approach or enter a stranger's car.
- Never to hitchhike.
- That they have your permission to say "No" to an adult, especially if that person wants them to do something you've taught them is wrong.
- That no one has the right to touch any part of their body a bathing suit could cover.
- To tell you if someone has asked them to keep a secret.
- To scatter their books or belongings of they are forced towards a building or car.
- Never to play in deserted buildings or isolated areas.
- Never to take shortcuts through empty parks or fields.
- About the Block Parent Program and logo.
- That if they are being followed, they should run home or go to the nearest public place and yell for help.
- To go places with friends.
- That adults rarely ask a child for help.
- That if they become separated from you at a grocery store or shopping mall, to go directly to a cashier or counter clerk.
- To report to you, school authorities, or a police officer anyone who exposes private parts.
- To recognize suspicious behaviour and remember a description of the person or vehicle to give to you or the police. Advise them to write the plate number in the dirt or snow if nothing else is available.
- Never to show their money, and if they are attacked for it, to give it up rather than risk injury.
- That police officers are their friends and that they can rely on them if they are in trouble.
- That they can talk to you and that you are interested in and sensitive to their fears.
... And Yourself
- To provide school or day-care centre the names of persons to whom your child may be released. Also inform the school or day-care centre who to notify in the event that you child does not arrive at school or day-care.
- To look carefully at your child's clothing each day.
- To keep an up-to-date colour photograph of you children, at least one for each year (more for younger children.)
- To keep a medical and dental history of your child's blood type, medical problems, scars, broken bones, pulled teeth, braces, glasses, medications, allergies, etc.
- To have your child fingerprinted and keep the prints with other pertinent information.
- To avoid clothing and toys with a child's name. This is important because a child is less likely to be fearful of someone who knows their name.
- To check all potential babysitters and older friends of your child.
- To always accompany children to the bathroom in a public place, and advise them never to loiter in or around the area.
- To always accompany your child on door-to-door activities, i.e. Hallowe'en, school fund raising campaigns.
- To make a list of important names, telephone numbers and addresses and place these where they can be easily accessible to the child at home, preferably near the telephone.
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